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Author, Kathryn White, writes a letter to her 18 y.o self

Dear Kathryn,

I know that things are pretty rough right now. 1999 has been a tough year for you. One of your closest friends passed away, your grandmother remarried against your mother’s wishes and then Grandma broke her hip and had a stroke all on the same day. (The day before your eighteenth birthday, no less.) You’ve had some trouble at school—and you’ve caused plenty of it in return—and now some of your friendships are beyond repair. On top of this, you’ve just completed year twelve, your biggest and most important year of schooling, and you are awaiting your final results.

I’m not surprised that you are feeling a little emotional right now.

I would also like to tell you something, and I think you need to hear it.

You are good enough.

You have always been good enough.

It does not matter that some people do not like you. It will not matter if you do not get perfect scores in all of you exams. Those things don’t matter. When you get older, you’re going to look back at that time in your life, and you’ll think differently about it. You’ll think about all the strange and wonderful people that you met, every Tuesday afternoon when you volunteered at the local soup kitchen. You’ll think about school, and you’ll think about little things like how Mr Carlson always kept a copy of Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance on his desk and you’ll think about big things like the time that the Prime Minister visited your school. You’ll think about how you went to the Royal Adelaide Show with Flamy, and how you both walked along Hindley Street after dark without your parents knowing (and how you didn’t get killed.) You’ll think about the closing ceremony that your school had for the West Campus and how out of three hundred kids, you were chosen to lead years eleven and twelve in a special parade. You’ll think about all the good times you shared with Mel and that will help you cope with the fact that she’s gone.

Mum and Grandma will patch things up. The story will have an unexpected twist, and one day, when you get home from uni, Dad will be waiting at the bus stop just so he can tell you all about it.

Love, your 35 yo self

PS. You were right about the Y2K bug being a load of nonsense.

PPS. Stop listening to that bloody Savage Garden CD. It really isn’t that great. And take all those celebrity posters down and put something inspirational on the wall instead.

beingabigailthumb booksign13About the author:

Kathryn White was born in 1981 and grew up on the south coast of Adelaide. A passionate writer, she was first published at age 17 and later graduated from Flinders University with a BA (Hons.) Kathryn has independently published a variety of novels and is happiest when she is using her writing to explore new concepts, dysfunctional relationships and to view life from the perspective of people who do not quite fit in with their world in one way or another.

Kathryn also runs a book blog titled Kathryn’s Inbox, which is updated daily. http://kathrynwhiteauthor.blogspot.com.au and connect on Facebook

 Thanks for playing, Kathryn. I love that letter. (And Savage Garden was okay!!)

Speaking of letters…

Wanting to honour the lost art of letter writing through this blog series, I also opened my fourth novel with a character writing a letter. And not just any letter. It’s a story — perhaps the most important he’ll ever tell.

The Other Side of the SeasonReady for a sea change

Life is simple on top of the mountain for David, Matthew and Tilly until the winter of 1979 when tragedy strikes, starting a chain reaction that will ruin lives for years to come. Those who can, escape the Greenhill banana plantation on the outskirts of Coffs Harbour. One stays—trapped for the next thirty years on the mountain and haunted by memories and lost dreams. That is until the arrival of a curious young woman, named Sidney, whose love of family shows everyone the truth can heal, what’s wrong can be righted, the lost can be found, and . . . there’s another side to every story.

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Author, Nicki Edwards, writes a letter to her 21 y.o. self

Dear Nicki,

Here you are, twenty-one years old today. Happy Birthday. In the next few hours you’ll accept a very unromantic marriage proposal but you’ll know you’ve made the right decision to say yes to this man. Although things will get tough at times, you’ll hang in there because you’ve met a very special man who ‘gets’ you.

You’ve had a busy life already – living overseas in Canada and the UK – and although you imagine you’ll do lots more travel over the next few years, you won’t. You’ll realise that family comes first.

You’ll have four kids in quick succession (less than two years apart) and love them more than you ever thought was possible. They will be your greatest achievement and success. But it won’t be easy, I’m sorry. You’ll be either pregnant or breastfeeding for most of the 1990’s and sleep deprivation and toddler tantrums will be your world. Take photos because the memories will fade too quickly.

At times you’ll feel like you’re the worst mother in the world – that mother – the one other mothers look down on, but it’s NOT TRUE. Don’t believe the lies your tired brain makes up. You are a very good mother. Want to know how I know that? Ask your kids. Jeremy, Chloe, Zachary and Toby, now 21, 19, 17 and 15. They will stir you and tease you and joke about your idiosyncrasies but they love you for who you are. You will never serve on the school canteen roster, you will forget to attend parent teacher interviews, you will fall asleep in the car watching your sons play football, but when it counts, you’ll be there and they know it. Your only prayer was for happy, healthy, well adjusted kids and you’ve got that. Your eldest turned twenty-one you remembered your own twenty-first party like it was yesterday. By the way, what were you thinking with that perm and that dress??

You’ll be tired for most of your 20’s and 30’s, but you’ll flourish during those stay at home mum years. You’ll pastor a church alongside your husband, preach and sing before hundreds, meet some amazing people and discover your gifting isn’t pastoral care! You will, however, have the opportunity to pursue your dream to become a nurse. And you’ll be a very good one. You’ll find your ‘fit’ and become a passionate advocate for the nursing profession.

You’ll work hard, you’ll be passionate, enthusiastic and energetic and people will constantly ask you how you fit everything in. The answer is easy. It’s because you have mastered the art of boundaries and learned how to say ‘no’. Congratulations. Not many people learn how to do that. But remember, sometimes it’s okay to say ‘yes’. Slowing down, sitting down and catching up with someone for a coffee isn’t always a waste of time. By the way, you should have learned to drink coffee and tea when you were younger because it’s antisocial just drinking water when you go out.

You’ll move houses more often than you expect and you’ll continue to love making new places ‘home’ for you and your family. Your Great Australian Dream of owning your own house will come and go multiple times so hold that loosely in your fingers and don’t get caught up in the belief that owning a house and ‘stuff’ is everything. It’s not.

If I could offer you some advice though, I’d encourage you to get your finances sorted so you don’t live pay to pay because one day that pay won’t be there and you’ll have your most difficult season yet while you’re studying fulltime and your husband isn’t working. That owning your own house thing? That’s why I said you need to hold it loose and not get worried when it’s not yours any more.

You’ll make friendships that will come and go – that saying about people coming into your life for a reason and a season is very relevant. You’ll maintain strong relationships with the friends you’ve had since your early twenties. Cherish them. Those friends will be there when things are at their lowest.

You’ll struggle with your weight and I wish you wouldn’t. Again, you’ll get caught up in comparisons. Stop it. You’ll realise being skinny doesn’t make you happy. You’ll lose weight, gain it, lose it, gain it again. Just embrace your curves. Be happy and healthy. Waking up every morning obsessed with what you’re not going to eat and how many kilometres you’re going to run to burn off calories is not the way to live. You will try it once and although you will look amazing, it won’t be sustainable.

Most of all, Nicki, you’ll dream big dreams and you’ll chase them. You’ll have a motto that’s very true. “Those who say it can’t be done shouldn’t interrupt the person doing it.” Keep doing it Nicki, whatever ‘it’ is.

Signed,

Your 46 year old self.
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Nicki-Edwards_ ABOUT THE AUTHOR:

Nicki Edwards is a city girl with a country heart. Growing up on a small family acreage, she spent her formative years riding horses and pretending the neighbour’s farm was her own. Nicki writes medical rural romance for Momentum and when she isn’t reading, writing or dreaming about rural life and medical emergencies, she can be found working as a Critical Care Nurse in a busy Intensive Care Unit, where many of her stories and characters are imagined.

Nicki lives in Geelong, Victoria with her husband and their four teenage/young adult children. Life is busy, fun and at times exhausting, but Nicki wouldn’t change it for anything. Visit her at nickiedwards.com.au.

BUY LINK: Amazon Australia

Thank you, Nic, and readers for dropping by.

Wanting to honour the lost art of letter writing through this blog series, I also opened my fourth novel with a character writing a letter. And not just any letter. It’s a story — perhaps the most important he’ll ever tell.

The Other Side of the SeasonReady for a sea change

Life is simple on top of the mountain for David, Matthew and Tilly until the winter of 1979 when tragedy strikes, starting a chain reaction that will ruin lives for years to come. Those who can, escape the Greenhill banana plantation on the outskirts of Coffs Harbour. One stays—trapped for the next thirty years on the mountain and haunted by memories and lost dreams. That is until the arrival of a curious young woman, named Sidney, whose love of family shows everyone the truth can heal, what’s wrong can be righted, the lost can be found, and . . . there’s another side to every story.

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Author, Monique Mulligan, writes a letter to her younger self

 

Dear Monique,

Wow, you’re 18 today. That means you can do all the things your mum said you had to wait for, like dating (bet you didn’t think she meant it when she said “18 and no earlier”), going out with your friends and finding your independence.

You’ve been a late bloomer – and your mum is right, you are too skinny – but after years of hating your hair and bemoaning your lack of curves, things are about to change. Well, the hair will – trust me, in a couple of years people will tell you how much they love your long, spiral-permed locks. The curves, on the other hand, won’t happen overnight, but they will happen.

You’ve left school behind, worked as a ride operator at a theme park over summer, and now you’re about to start university. A whole new world will open up for you. You’re going to meet people from all sorts of backgrounds. You’ll make two lifelong friends. New opportunities, dreams and possibilities will come your way. And you’re going to ask: “Do I really want to be a journalist?”. Yes, you will question the career you always thought you wanted. The choice you make will set your course for many years.

Monique, you’re a perfectionist. You may as well admit it. So, I am going to break it to you gently: you will make mistakes. You can’t please everyone. You will always try to do the right thing, but sometimes your youthful ego, innocence, inexperience, expectations and desire for peace and harmony (and stubbornness) will mean what you thought was right, really wasn’t quite right. But you are a student of life and you do learn from mistakes, so you will be okay.

And while I’ll stop short from calling you a control freak (even if you are a neat freak), your desire for harmony does mean you want to fix things so everyone is happy, even at your own expense. You’ve got to stop doing that! Trust me, you’re going to take on everyone else’s responsibilities until you are emotionally and physically exhausted. Don’t laugh. It’s true. And it will lead to even more changes. This is probably the hardest lesson you will learn in your life.

I’m not going to give you spoilers, just few tips to make things smoother.

Hold on to your dreams: Right now, you’re bursting with ideas about travel, from living and working in London, to working on a summer camp in the US, and even living in Germany to make use of six years’ German at school. You will travel, but not in the way you think. Okay, that was a spoiler, but the point is, do not give up on that dream because it will come true eventually.

Write: You were born to be a writer, just as your English teacher said. Trust yourself. Believe in yourself and tell Self Doubt to take a walk in someone else’s park. Make friends with other writers. Don’t waste precious time hiding your stories in drawers or waiting for the right time. Make that time.

Give yourself a break: You’re so hard on yourself. Stop dancing to the tunes of “Not Pretty Enough” and “Don’t Let Me Get Me” and start rocking to “F***ing Perfect” and “Try”. On second thoughts, those songs aren’t out yet, but listen out for them. The point is, stop trying to be perfect, to be everything for everyone. It’ll be easier.

Love yourself: This follows on from the previous point, but one day, you will be asked: “What do you love about you?” And you will cry because you won’t know how to answer. Let me make it easy for you. There’s a lot to love about you, from your kindness, to your openness, from your silliness to your determination. That’s the start. Ultimately, if you love yourself, you can love those around you even better.

Hold on to the little girl inside: When responsibilities overwhelm and challenges melt, don’t lose sight of little Monique. It’s okay to make up weird poems and songs in the car, to sing “Do Re Mi” at the top of your voice when you’re cooking, to tell completely offbeat stories that make no sense but are fun, and to giggle uncontrollably at times. You don’t have to be grown up all the time.

And lastly, quit worrying about what others think. Learn to be happy with yourself. Expect others to love you as you are.

Love,

Your 44-year-old self.

Monique Mulligan The Point of Love

 

Monique MulliganABOUT THE AUTHOR:

A former newspaper editor, journalist, children’s curriculum writer and magazine editor, Monique Mulligan is the author of The Point of Love and My Silly Mum, and is working on a full-length contemporary novel and a romance novella. She also reviews books on her blog, Write Note Reviews, and hosts a successful Stories on Stage programme.

Monique’s website is www.moniquemulligan.com |  Twitter: @writenote1  | Facebook

Buy The Point of Love: Amazon   Serenity Press

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 Now, did you know…?

My fourth novel opens with a character writing a letter, which is what prompted this blog series. And not just any letter. It’s a story –perhaps the most important he’ll ever tell.

The Other Side of the Season

Everything has a reflection…

And there’s another side to every story.

Ready for a sea changeLife is simple on top of the mountain for David, Matthew and Tilly until the winter of 1979 when tragedy strikes, starting a chain reaction that will ruin lives for years to come. Those who can, escape the Greenhill banana plantation on the outskirts of Coffs Harbour. One stays—trapped for the next thirty years on the mountain and haunted by memories and lost dreams. That is until the arrival of a curious young woman, named Sidney, whose love of family shows everyone the truth can heal, what’s wrong can be righted, the lost can be found, and…

. . . there’s another side to every story.

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